Victorian Gothic: Victorian Mourning Etiquette and Mentality
By Stephanie Carroll
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mourning etiquette consisted of a large set of traditions and expectations that
were considered an appropriate way to mourn a death; however, behind the
outward expressions of mourning, there
were anxieties and struggles going on in the deeper psychology of the Victorian
society. Victorian Mourning customs are
all over the internet, but this article includes little known facts that have
been bolded for your convenience.
It’s important to keep in mind that the stages
of mourning were different depending on the specific point in the century.Further, Victorian mourning
could vary quite a lot from Europe to America and even from one coast to the
other. Mourning traditions grew popular out of the United Kingdom after Queen Victoria went into deep mourning when
her beloved husband, Prince Albert, died in 1861 at the age of 42. Some customs
were less strict or elaborate once they reached America. However, there were
some overall traditions that remained relatively the same.
Death was common during the Victorian Era. A
large percentage of babies and children died as well as adults. It was a
frightening thing as new discoveries about human death spurred more questions than answers. It wasn’t clear if death
occurred due the heart stopping or the brain dying and why these things occurred
at all. This uncertainty led to a fear that people could be buried or
It also led
to fears regarding what it meant about
the soul if brain death was the ultimate cause of death.People believed the soul resided within the
heart or chest cavity, so it made sense that the heart stopping signaled death
as this would mean the release of the soul, but if it was the brain, then what
did that mean about the soul?Various
advancements in knowledge and technology ultimately created fears over the existence of the soul and
life after death, which is why Victorians were also quite obsessed with ghosts, séances, and
modern times, death most commonly occurred within the home in result of an
illness. Lack of medicine and the use of family members to care for the ill
meant that all the messy and difficult
parts of an illness were witnessed by the direct relatives.Further, the byproducts of the human body
ceasing to function were witnessed and cleaned by family members or by servants
in an upper class home.Historians
have interpreted the elaborate spectacles surrounding death as a way for people
to deal with and overcome the most disturbing and
traumatizing realities of death in Victorian society.
The Funeral and
funerals and burials of the deceased were elaborate shows put on by a family even
at their own financial detriment. People considered the bigger and better the
funeral, the more the departed had been loved, so many would go above and
beyond to prove their affections.
The funeral could take place in the home or in a church. People might have a friend of the family
sit with the dead for a time or have a waiting mortuary to delay the burial in case of a misdiagnosed death. In the home, there might be a viewing, but not usually in a church
unless it was for a very prominent man who would attract more mourners than a
house could accommodate. Sometimes
people would send out an announcement that the funereal was private to deter a
large attendance, but if someone did show up, no one would turn him or her
might hire a normal horse-drawn hearse or one with a glass cover so people
could see inside. Carriages and mourners would follow behind the hearse in a
dramatic precession down public streets to the cemetery. The family might also hire carriages for some of the attendees, and some
families even hired mourners or “mutes” to walk behind the hearse in the
the more elaborate each step of the funeral and burial, the better, so families
were encouraged to purchase the most expensive coffins, elaborate head stones,
mausoleums, and family plots. Further, people would buy large amount of
flowers, mourning wardrobes, memorabilia including post mortem photos, known as Memento Mori, and hair jewelry made with locks of hair from
The funeral business was a huge industry. Many
historians believe the popularity of extravagance in funerals originated from
the industry’s desire to make money off of the grieving. However, some historians
argue that the crossover of extravagant mourning to other aspects of Victorian
culture, such as literature, suggests it was much deeper than an economic and fashionable
Inside The Home
was prepared after a death to be a quiet,
dark solitude of grief. Victorians would cover the mirrors with black sheaths because women were not supposed to partake
in any kind of vanity during this time as they
should look dreadful from weeping. Someone would drape a piece of black velvet
over the portrait of the patriarch if he had passed. They also locked the piano because no one was to play any music, and
there would be no dinner parties or festivities in the house for some time. Sometimes
other areas of the home were also draped or decorated with black fabric. They would drape the family carriage with
black velvet too.
a variety of traditions to signal outsiders that the house was in mourning. Some
people hung black wreaths on the door, or the family covered the doorknobs in
white crepe for a child’s death or black crepe for an adult’s death. Markers like these signaled to visitors
that they should prepare to speak quietly and quickly so they do not overtax or
burden the bereaved. The family might also muffle the doorbell to prevent
any loud noises, which would startle the already anxious nerves of those
inside. Oftentimes, people would not call upon a family in mourning unless they
were close friends or relatives.
Although it wasn’t unheard of to forgo mourning, most people abided by the customs as a sign of sorrow and respect
for the dead, especially women and widows in particular. The expectations of mourning were less severe on men who needed to
return to work and provide for the family. Women, on the other hand, were
expected to isolate themselves for months or even years. It was not acceptable
to make or receive calls, attend parties, dances, or any kind of joyous
occasion unless it was musical or theatre related. If one attended, she was not to participate in the festivities.This is why Scarlett O’Hara’s dancing in Gone with the Wind was so scandalous.
did venture out during their mourning, they were supposed to be properly
adorned based on the closeness of the person who had died and on how long that
person had since passed. A period of mourning was expected to last between six
months to two years depending on the relationship to the deceased. It was
always acceptable to mourn longer if the individual so desired.
Mentality through Fashion
first stage of mourning, known as deep or full mourning, women were expected to
wear all black or grey dress with heavy,
dull fabrics such as wool or crepe.
Their jewelry was usually made of jet, and they would wear long weeping veils that
reached almost to the ground. During deep mourning, women would isolate themselves,
abstain from joyous occasions, and were encouraged to be emotionally
devastated. Etiquette manuals taught
that women’s nerves would be so rattled that they might be startled by loud
noises, burdened by visitation, and incapable of anything other than weeping.
devastation was expected, it was not
uncommon for men and women in mourning to
get married or remarried. At this time, marriage was still an institution
of survival, and a woman could not last long without a husband unless her
family had the ability to care for her. People
generally tried to wait to remarry until after the deep mourning phase ended;
however, not all women could survive that long without financial support.
Weddings with a bride or groom in mourning would be small and quiet,
usually taking place in a family home and only with the closest of family and
friends in attendance. The bride or groom in mourning would still wear black
mourning garb to the ceremony. Announcements regarding the marriage might go
period of time, usually a year, a woman could move into half mourning, which
was when she could venture out into public more often and add certain colors to
her wardrobe, including greys, mauves, and whites. Society expected the
transition from mourning garb to cheery colors to be subtle, and many women would transition to a
wardrobe of all white before returning to everyday colors.
Children were less likely to be placed in mourning
garb by adults although in some areas it was still practiced. Older girls would
sometimes be clothed in all white for their mourning garb.
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close of the Victorian Era, society still expected middle-class women to be
“the angels of the house,” even as a select few strived to become something
more. In this time of change, Emeline Evans dreamed of becoming a nurse. But
when her father dies unexpectedly, Emeline sacrifices her ambitions
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the stake in 1900, disobedience is a symptom of psychological defect, and
hysterical women must be controlled.
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Description:The West Memphis Three. Accused, convicted…and set free. Do you know their story?
In 2011, one of the greatest miscarriages of justice in American legal history was set right when Damien Echols, Jason Baldwin, and Jessie Misskelley were released after eighteen years in prison. Award-winning journalist Mara Leveritt's Devil's Knot remains the most comprehensive, insightful reporting ever done on the investigation, trials, and convictions of three teenage boys who became known as the West Memphis Three.
For weeks in 1993, after the murders of three eight-year-old boys, police in West Memphis, Arkansas seemed stymied. Then suddenly, detectives charged three teenagers, alleged members of a satanic cult, with the killings. Despite the witch-hunt atmosphere of the trials, and a case which included stunning investigative blunders, a confession riddled with errors, and an absence of physical evidence linking any of the accused to the crime, the teenagers were convicted. Jurors sentenced Jason Baldwin and Jessie Misskelley to life in prison and Damien Echols, the accused ringleader, to death. The guilty verdicts were popular in their home state, even upheld on appeal, and all three remained in prison until their unprecedented release in August 2011.
With close-up views of its key participants, this award-winning account unravels the many tangled knots of this endlessly shocking case, one which will shape the American legal landscape for years to come.
My Thoughts on Devil's Knot: The True Story of the West Memphis Three by Mara Leveritt
From the 1994 convictions of Damien Echols, Jason Baldwin and Jessie Misskelley, I have been interested in this case and read everything I could on it. Without a doubt, the best resource is Mara Leverett's excellent recounting, Devil's Knot: The True Story of the West Memphis Three. With the same tenacity and brutal honesty she displayed in TheBoys on the Tracks (another excellent read), Ms. Leveritt, an Arkansas resident herself, pulls no punches in shining a harsh light on three young men wrongfully convicted by a community desperate to hold someone accountable for terrible acts.
Devil's Knot will drop you right into the small town of West Memphis, Arkansas and take you through the crimes, the circus of an investigation, the questioning of suspects, the circumstantial evidence, the trials and the convictions. She brings life to not only the three boys who were killed but the three young men who found themselves at the center of the controversy because of their penchant to wear black, their style in music and their low incomes.
Having covered the trials for her local paper, Ms. Leveritt has been enmeshed in this case from the beginning and her close proximity to locale and residents is evident in her writing. It is flawless; not only does she take you to the scene, as mentioned above, but she makes you feel. I was overwhelmed with feelings of sadness, anger, despair, disgust, rage and loss while reading this book. Regardless of your feelings on the guilt or innocence of The West Memphis Three, the local police's coercion, laziness and lack of a cohesive investigation, along with the prosecutorial misconduct and the judge's bias, should make your blood boil. Shoddy police work aside, the trials were anything but fair, allowing community hysteria to take over, evidence to be fabricated and questionable testimony to become expert. From the start these three young men didn't have a chance and Ms. Leveritt puts that on blast.
In the hands of a lesser journalist, Devil's Knot could easily have become a dime-store paperback; one that told the basic tale, glorifying the violence, but without any real depth. In Ms. Leveritt's able hands, this is a must-read for not only true crime junkies but also for anyone in the legal field. This is a lesson on how not to rush to judgment, how not to conduct an investigation, how not to speak to the press.
While this book was written in 2002, nearly ten years before Echols, Baldwin and Misskelley were released from prison, it's still the best read you will find on the case. Not a stone was left unturned in Ms. Leveritt's quest to find justice not only for The West Memphis Three but for the children killed.
I would not hesitate to recommend Devil's Knot to anyone wanting to learn about the investigation into the West Memphis crimes, the trials and the wrongful convictions. The story of The West Memphis Three and what can happen from public hysteria should scare the hell out of you. Devil's Knot: The True Story of The West Memphis Three by Mara Leveritt is available for purchase at major booksellers, including Amazon. I am an Amazon affiliate. I will make a small commission if you make a purchase through my link.
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Description:The Princess Diana Conspiracy
presents extremely incriminating evidence that all democratic nations should
embrace. Its proven that the paparazzi were kept away from court through
“Political Intervention”; the decision to embalm Diana was taken at a “Diplomatic
Level”; MI6 are proven to have perverted the course of justice and are forced
into acknowledging they murder people; senior police officers compared their
evidence to get their stories straight during the inquest and repeatedly
sidestepped crucial questions-just some of the information disclosed.
The authorities are examined both pre and post the Paris attack. Disturbing
evidence is presented and questions are raised over Britain’s democracy where
the people are supposed to be the law. If you share this books view that this
heinous act was intolerable then consider; Diana’s murder needed the nod from
someone in a position of considerable power or influence; so, who gave the
Post attack, shamefaced authorities were coerced into cooperating with a
subterfuge just because the people’s justice endangered one family and, of
course, MI6; clearly an abuse of the people’s democracy. This book shows
evidence of murder that any honest court would accept.
Murderous monsters assassinated Diana to preserve the status quo; an act of
which the Nazi SS or the old KGB would have been proud. But instead of burning
books, these people now intimidate writers who seek justice and they are, in my
view, guilty of treason. Please read and consider your verdict.
My Thoughts on The Princess
Diana Conspiracy by Alan Power
From the year that Diana Spencer married
Prince Charles, I became utterly and completely fascinated with her.That fascination continued until and past her
death; like so many, I sat in front of the tv watching news reports about that
horrific weekend in Paris and actually cried when watching her funeral, as if I
had lost someone close to me.
Even though it’s been many years since her
death, there are still books about her being written and I will anxiously pick
each up.The Princess Diana Conspiracy was no exception.
Author Alan Power wrote this book,
convinced that Diana was murdered on orders from the Palace, and shares his
theories and gives supporting evidence.He addresses the infamous white Fiat, driver Henri Paul, the “Tell Me
Yes” ring and why he feels that Diana was a threat to the Royal Family.
While I did find the book interesting and
felt that Mr. Power very passionately defended his beliefs, I did struggle with
portions of it.One of Mr. Power’s more
fervent views is that Diana and Dodi were engaged at the time of the car
accident, planning to marry in October and then living abroad in France.The author also states that Diana was
planning some type of custody fight with Prince Charles, wanting full physical
custody of William and Harry and the ability to take them to live abroad.I just could not take these theories
seriously.Despite her friction with the
Royal Family, Diana also had respect for them; she was raised as an upper class
British girl who rubbed shoulders with the Royal Family.No matter how good relations may have been
with Prince Charles, without a doubt she would have known that William and
Harry could never live outside of England and she could never have sole custody
I also don’t believe that Dodi Fayed was
anything more than a summer fling which would have flickered out by the month
the author was claiming they were to be married.Diana’s friends and confidants all claimed
that she was deeply in love with Dr. Hasnat Khan and Dodi was a rebound, a
relationship born to make Dr. Khan jealous.And would she really have elected to marry a man she had spent only six
or so weeks with?Diana was indeed
impulsive; if there was talk of marriage, I simply don’t see her going through
with it after the initial buzz (including that from the media) wore off.
Harder to accept was the idea that the
Palace was behind Diana’s death, with driver Henri Paul and Dodi being
collateral damage (and bodyguard Trevor Rees Jones barely surviving).Would the Palace really consider Diana so
much more dangerous because she was dating a Muslim?Wouldn’t she have been considered a lot more
dangerous when she was giving the Panorama interview?Not only that but it’s been widely reported
that the Queen is very close with Prince William.Would she, or the Duke of Edinburgh, endorse
a plan to cause the worst pain a child can endure?
On the plus side, Mr. Power does a very
thorough and impressive job in questioning Henri Paul’s level of involvement,
complete with a rundown of his finances and legitimate questioning of how
certain levels of money came to be in his bank account.It is a good question and one that remains
The play-by-play of the actual accident is
also methodically dissected with plenty of detail regarding timing and
eyewitness accounts.The death of one
key player in particular, ruled a suicide, is most definitely
The weakest part of the book, in my
opinion, is the oversaturation and repetitive nature of the contents.Reading the same information twice or even
three times throughout the course of the book caused it to become tedious and
Regardless, I found The Princess Diana Conspiracy to be a good addition to the titles
on Princess Diana.Mr. Power made some
good, solid points and whether you believe there was a conspiracy to
assassinate the princess or merely an accident, the book will leave you with
the sense of tragedy over the loss of an influential woman at too young an age.
The Princess Diana Conspiracy by Alan
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Description:Seven years ago, and seven
miles below the surface of the Pacific Ocean, Dr. Jonas Taylor encountered
something that changed the course of his life. Once a Navy deep-sea submersible
pilot, now a marine paleontologist, Taylor is convinced that a remnant
population of Carcharodon megalodon—prehistoric sharks growing up to 70 feet
long, that subsisted on whales—lurks at the bottom of the Mariana Trench. When
offered the opportunity to return to those crushing depths in search of the
Megs, Taylor leaps at the chance… but the quest for scientific knowledge (and
personal vindication) becomes a desperate fight for survival, when the most
vicious predator that the earth has ever known is freed to once-again hunt the
My Thoughts on Meg:A Novel of Deep Terror by Steve Alten
I have long had a fascination with sharks, likely starting
with Jaws 2 (which I saw before the
original Jaws) and this fascination
is fed every summer with Shark Week.I
am terrified of sharks to the point of not getting in the ocean, unless I’m in
a boat, and being convinced that if I ever do put a toe into the actual ocean
the shark dinner bell will be ringing.However,
I have no problem watching movies and reading books that deal with other people
being attacked by said shark(s).I know,
don’t try to figure me out.Others have
tried for years without success.
Naturally, Steve Alten’s meganovel Meg: A Novel of Deep Terror is right up my alley.Imagine, if you will, that the prehistoric Megalodon,
considered extinct for 100,000 years, managed to survive.And said Megalodon (“Meg”, hence the title of
the book) found its way to more populated waters and decided not to limit
itself to a diet of merely whales when tasty humans are around.That would be frightening enough but the Meg isn’t your ordinary
man-eating shark.Oh no, this fish makes
the original Great White from Jaws
look like a babe in the woods.The Meg
is some sixty to seventy feet in length with a mouth as large as a two car
Meg drew me in from the first page until the last.It’s intense, it’s heart-pounding and it can
make you feel claustrophobic, even if you’re not.How to stop a massive fish whose only purpose
is to kill?And how to survive against
such a fish if you’re on its turf, many miles underwater?
I’m no scientist or oceanographer but author Steve Alten
does a bang up job in not only helping the reader to understand the
submersibles’ missions but feel as if he or she is right there, alongside the
characters.Did I mention claustrophobia?Again . . . be prepared.
The most well fleshed out character is our hero, Jonas Taylor.His weariness, frustration and fear will jump
off the page at you.For as well defined
as he is, the majority of the other characters are primarily supporting and you
don’t get the same sense of each of them as you do Taylor.However, you do get a very good sense of the
Meg who, rightfully, is a main character of this tale.
Like Jaws, Meg makes for fantastic summer reading .
. . but it can also be a gratifying read as the leaves are turning and the
nights are getting chilly.I, for one,
was grateful to be reading it in the safety of my landlocked home.It’s a relatively quick read and it’s as
fast moving as a blitz attack by a Great White.It will certainly cause you to
wonder if it’s possible the Meg still moves along the darkest corridors of the
sea and think twice about what might be circling below you in the ocean.
Pick up Meg and
settle in for a less than quiet evening, complete with tension, fear and
moments that will make you gasp out loud.
Meg: A Novel of Deep
Terror by Steve Alten is available for purchase now at major booksellers,
including Amazon.I am an Amazon
affiliate.I will receive a small
commission if you make a purchase through my link.
For more information on author Steve Alten, please visit his website.
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book was borrowed from my local public library. I was neither compensated nor
paid in any way for this review.
Restless Souls: The Sharon Tate Family's Account of Stardom, the Manson Murders, and a Crusade for Justice by Alisa Statman and Brie Tate Published February 21, 2012 by It Books Kindle, 436 KB Source ISBN: 0062107291 Paperback, 400 pages ISBN-10: 0062008056 ISBN-13: 978-0062008053 Audio Addition, 9 hours and 22 minutes ASIN: B0054K72DO
The gruesome murders of the beautiful and talented actress Sharon
Tate, her unborn child and four others that same night at the hands of the
notorious "Manson family" rocked the nation. As one of the most
horrific crimes in modern history, these atrocities, the trial and the
subsequent conviction of Charles Manson and his followers caused a media
sensation, spawning movies, documentaries and bestselling books, including the
classic Helter Skelter. A defining moment in an era otherwise associated
with radical peace, love and understanding, this incident is one that still
resonates with millions today.
Yet while this crime left an indelible mark on society's
consciousness, it was, first and foremost, a shattering personal tragedy for
those closest to Sharon—the loving family left to cope with the emotional
devastation of her loss. Now, after nearly forty years, their story is finally
Compiled by close family friend Alisa Statman and Sharon's niece
Brie Tate, Restless Souls draws on a wealth of material including
interviews with the Tates, personal letters, tape recordings, home movies,
public interviews, private journals, and official documents to provide a
powerful, poignant, and affecting four-decade, three-generation memoir of crime
and punishment, anguish and hope, rage and love, that is both a chronicle of
death and a celebration of life.
Extending beyond all previous accounts, Restless Souls is
the most revealing, riveting, and emotionally raw account not just of these
heinous murders, the hunt and capture of the killers and the behind-the-scenes
drama of their trials, but of the torment victims families' endure for years in
the wake of such senseless violence.
Tate family members set the record straight, correcting media
misinformation and delving well beyond the official storyline to provide
information, much of it available for the first time. Intimate, honest, and
heartfelt, Restless Souls remarkable details, including :
·the dramatic role Sharon's father, P. J., a retired army
intelligence officer, played in finding his daughter's murderers
·the reaction P. J. had when he came face to face—alone—with
Sharon's convicted killer in a holding room during a parole hearing
·the threats and menace that extended beyond prison walls, haunting
the victim's family for generations later
·the fight Sharon's mother, Doris, mounted to insure the rights of
victims' loved ones, particularly the right to make an ‘impact statement' at
parole hearings—a legacy that has helped keep dangerous criminals behind bars
·the battles Sharon's sister, Patti, waged with the entertainment
industry as she tirelessly worked to prevent artists from glorifying her
sister's killers in music, art, and films
Told from the Tate’s extraordinary perspective Restless Souls
offers a rare glimpse at the post-trauma survival of a family and their journey
to find justice and ultimately, peace—a glimpse that couldn't be more timely as
Charles Manson comes up for parole again in 2012.
My Thoughts on Restless
Souls: The Sharon Tate Family’s Account
of Stardom, the Manson Murders, and a Crusade for Justice
Restless Souls: The
Sharon Tate Family’s Account
of Stardom, the Manson Murders, and a Crusade for Justiceis the
latest entry into the substantial collection of books written about the Manson
murders and at first glance, it may seem an unwanted and unneeded addition into
an oversaturated, even weary, market.Don’t let the number of books preceding it affect your decision to pass
this one by.It’s well worth your time
This case has long been one that I have had a particular
interest in.Helter Skelter, Vincent Bugliosi and Curt Gentry’s classic about
the crimes, was the first book in the true crime genre that I read.Since then, I have reread it many times and
the senseless horror never fails to create an uneasy pit in my stomach.Of all the Manson victims, Sharon Tate was
the most pathetic and the most notorious; perhaps for this reason I felt a
particular sadness over her death.
Finding Restless Souls
was hitting the literary lottery for me.After more than forty years, this was an account of how the Tate family
dealt with the aftermath of the most well known murders of the 20th
century and how the brutal killing of her daughter led Sharon’s mother Doris to
forcefully advocate for victims’ families.
A good quarter or so of the book deals with Sharon and the
time before the murders.I appreciated
reading about the true Sharon, as her family saw her and knew her.Authors Alisa Statman and Brie Tate (nee
Ford, Sharon’s niece) pull no punches in using journals written by P.J. and
Doris Tate, as well as Sharon’s sister Patti (and Brie’s late mother).They admit to Sharon’s drug usage, as well as
usage by her former fiancé and fellow victim, Jay Sebring, and the debt he was
in following the crimes.Reading
Sebring’s despondency over Sharon’s pregnancy, still pining for her and hoping
that she would return to him once her marriage ended, and knowing they would
die together was particularly heartbreaking.Sharon is presented as particularly human, no saint but certainly not
the questionable “live freaky, die freaky” character that’s been oft-repeated
since her death.Rather, she is shown as
a loving and devoted daughter and sister, a fierce animal lover, a woman who
cried reading Tess of the D’Urbervilles
and encouraged her husband that it would make a wonderful film (a film he made
in 1979, dedicating it to her).For
Sharon Tate fans who like her with only the gauzy light of reality on her, they
may not be pleased; for those who want to know the real Sharon, good and bad,
this is a slice of heaven.
The bulk of Restless
Souls deals with the after effects of murder on the living victims, not
just the Tate family but the Parent family and various families that Doris Tate
would go on to help.These were the
difficult parts of the book to read.The
raw anguish of the Tates’ suffering comes off every page, making it at times
necessary to put the book down, even just for a moment.And a moment was about as long as I could
stand to put it down, so anxious I was to continue on this uneasy journey with
Sharon’s family.Doris Tate, despite her
resistance to be categorized as such, was a true heroine - - a strong fighter
who took the greatest tragedy of her life and dedicated herself to trying to
prevent the same horror happening to others.PJ Tate, following the death of his daughter, took to the streets
himself in search of his child’s killers and his investigation is included, to
interesting to me was Tate’s confrontation with killer Charles “Tex” Watson, an
encounter that left the cold and heartless killer shaken.Patti Tate’s story, while less well known
than her mother’s, is no less sad; only ten years old in 1969, she idolized her
older sister and felt she never had the chance to give Sharon a proper goodbye
and spent many years not acknowledging or speaking of her.
The only weak part of Restless
Souls, in this reader’s opinion, was the replay of the murders in which the
thoughts and feelings of the victims are discussed.As this is pure conjecture taken from Patti’s
unpublished memoir and written as fact, it’s a bit disconcerting.However, it’s a small flaw compared to the
overall strength of the book, which includes showing not only Sharon but Jay
Sebring, Abigail Folger and Woyteck Frykowski as actual people and not just
victims.(There is no information on
Steven Parent because the Tates and their friends did not know him).
Restless Souls is
a worthy companion to Helter Skelter,
the latter discussing the crimes, detection of the killers and their trials, a
memoir of pain and heartache as well as a nod to Doris, PJ and Patti Tate’s
dedication and a reminder that Sharon Tate was more than a beautiful murder
victim.I would not hesitate to highly
Restless Souls is
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